Key to Winning My Child’s Heart
TESTED AND TRIED TONS OF TIMES KEY IN WINNING MY CHILD’S HEART.
I need to connect with my child; right where they are, heart to heart. With all sincerity, compassion and gentleness. Block out all worries, schedules and bad drama.
See life in their eyes; right now, right there. To the point, they believe you are 100% in their world. Now play with them, in the same way they are playing. Every once and awhile add in a funny, surprising and simple way to get them to laugh and giggle. The hardier the giggling and laughter the better. Even go the distance of talking like the way they do. Add in something that is new and or deep to them. It needs to be at their age level of comprehension. Example: Like when the child gets impatient and throws a tantrum: mommy is always waiting for you, it’s your turn to wait for mommy. Do this in the same voice, as when you were playing with them.
You know when you’ve made a heart-to-heart connection with your child, when your child lights up every time they see you and or your ready to play with them.
Once you own this key, no one can ever take it away from you. Even if a self-centered ex tries to take and keep your child from you. Your child will demand the self-centered ex to take them to you. The self-centered ex doesn’t have the unconditional love and patience to connect with the child. Period. They’ll try by buying the child “things” and or take them to a “fun” place. In hopes that will pacify the child. But the child will always remember your sincere heart to heart connections. Compare the two and let the self-centered parent they are not happy and or it’s not fun. The child will quickly disconnect from the new “toy” and “fun” place.
This will in time discourage the self-centered parent. The self-centered parent will get discouraged and complain alot; that the child doesn’t appreciate the “toy” and or “fun” place. Regardless of how bad the complaining gets, the child will always hold onto your heart to heart connection they have with you. Over time this will wear out the self-centered parent BIG TIME. They give up on trying to “enforce” their parenting rights and or just stop getting the child from you.
Like a Silent Abandonment.
Unconditional Love conquers all. The self-centered person can not tolerate “giving” their time, effort and money to someone/something other than themselves. This is how I got my children back. It was a slow process. But with consistency, the results of our continued heart to heart relationship with our child will bear a more enriching relationship with our child. That will last a lifetime.
Not worried about self-centered parents reading this and using it to their advantage. It will never be sincere. An innocent child’s heart can detect self-centeredness no matter how hard the self-centered parent tries to hide it.
One last note: The sooner we connect with our child heart to heart, the better it is for us and your them.
Enjoy the Journey…
Until then OV – See More Live More!
