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Maximizing My Time

Being a Single Parent is the toughest job/role in life. Period. I know personally. I was a Single Parent of my three beautiful children for 13+ years; by myself with no financial assistance. Tough. Once I got basically full custody of my children, it made it a TON easier. BUT I still never felt […]

Harmonizing Siblings

HARMONIZING SIBLINGS The earlier we can have our children harmonizing together, it will be easier for them to harmonize together as they get older within our family. They might go their own ways when they move out and on their own, BUT they’ll have the skills of mastering harmonizing that will help them raise their […]

DeadBeatDad

DeadBeatDad No matter how much we warn our child in their younger years, our child is convinced their dad is a good dad. They haven’t experienced the behind the scenes mental and physical abuse that their dad has done. Our child has only seen the surface good side of dad. Unless somehow out of […]

Less is More

Less is More! At the closing of this civilization we’ve been programmed to think, we need this for that. And… more is better. In reality it’s the opposite. Less is more. The less I spend the more I have. The less drama I have the more time I have to do the important things. It’s […]

photo of mother and child beside body of water

Hiding My Fear of Losing My Child with a Smile

My Ex is a cold-hearted self-centered person, whose addicted to taking my child away from me. I quietly cry myself to sleep, after having a surreal day playing on the beach with my child. Is it my last day with my child? If my child is ripped out of my life, will my child be […]

Key to Winning My Child’s Heart

TESTED AND TRIED TONS OF TIMES KEY IN WINNING MY CHILD’S HEART. I need to connect with my child; right where they are, heart to heart. With all sincerity, compassion and gentleness. Block out all worries, schedules and bad drama. See life in their eyes; right now, right there. To the point, they believe […]

My Hell and Back 103 Survival Tips

I had the Honor and Privilege of writing my dad’s life story, to be an inspiration to us and all the generations who need it. My father’s Free Movie Sweet Heart (my mother) had transitioned on a little over a year. Missing her like no other was all over his face. He met her when […]