Single Parenting without the BS.
No Matter Where We Look, It Seems Like Civilization has Abandoned the Family Structure... There's More Single Parent Mothers on the Planet than Ever Before!
Our Children Suffer the Most
If our children are fortunate enough to get at least one good parent then their odds are higher in surviving their childhood.
TIME
The window to connect with our child is limited. We have a few years before they become teenagers. If we don't connect heart-to-heart with them before their mid-teens then the odds are high we won't. Sobering...
RESOURCES
The Secret is to be able to work with what resources we have, before and or while raising our child/ren. We might have to downsize asap, just to be able to connect with our child. If it's even an option.
BEAR FRUIT?
After making the investment of our time and what resources we have into connecting heart-to-hearth with our child. We hope that our child will be able to have a better adult life and bear the fruit from it.
Single Parent Tested Wisdom: from a Single Parent - Blog
Maximizing My Time
Being a Single Parent is the toughest job/role in life. Period. I know personally. I was a Single Parent of my three beautiful children for 13+ years; by myself with no financial assistance. Tough. Once I got basically full custody of my children, it made it a TON easier. BUT I still never felt like I had enough time to do IT ALL. Maximizing My Time NOW... is [...]
Harmonizing Siblings
HARMONIZING SIBLINGS The earlier we can have our children harmonizing together, it will be easier for them to harmonize together as they get older within our family. They might go their own ways when they move out and on their own, BUT they'll have the skills of mastering harmonizing that will help them raise their children in the same harmonizing environment. I'll be [...]
DeadBeatDad
DeadBeatDad No matter how much we warn our child in their younger years, our child is convinced their dad is a good dad. They haven't experienced the behind the scenes mental and physical abuse that their dad has done. Our child has only seen the surface good side of dad. Unless somehow out of the blue pissed off their dad. Then dad shows his true colors, but ends the [...]
Less is More
Less is More! At the closing of this civilization we've been programmed to think, we need this for that. And... more is better. In reality it's the opposite. Less is more. The less I spend the more I have. The less drama I have the more time I have to do the important things. It's takes awhile to break that pre-programmed mindset. The secret in mastering this is in taking bab [...]
Our Journey Together Starts Now.
My Pen Name is Optimum Vizhan - OV for short
In my Journey as a Single Parent Father raising my three children by myself, I was fortunate to acquire the wisdom of learning how to see more to live more. If I only see ONE option then I only have ONE option to work with. If I can see 10 Options then I have plenty of options to work with. If I see myself learning how to master connecting with my three children's totally different personalities then I'll increase my odds in connecting heart-to-heart with each of my children's totally different personalities.
To get to know more about me as a Visionary Restoration Coach visit my Optimum Vizhan website HERE.